Destroying the “Tall Poppy Syndrome”
If you’re reading this article, it’s likely because you, like me, are interested in or aspire to be successful. It’s a journey that we all embark upon, driven by our ambitions and the desire for personal accomplishment. In this piece, let us explore the concept of success, how we can enhance its perception, and why our success can be the most generous contribution we make to our lives, businesses and communities.
Take a moment to reflect on your own experiences of success. Think about the moments that have brought you joy, satisfaction, and a sense of achievement. It could be something as seemingly small as overcoming a personal challenge or as significant as doubling the size of your business. For me, seeing a client achieve a business goal beyond what they thought they were capable gives me a feeling of fulfilment and personal pride in my value and contribution.
Success is often perceived as an individual pursuit, marked by wealth, status, or recognition. However, it is important to recognize that success is not limited to these external markers. It encompasses personal growth, self-improvement, and making a positive impact, no matter how small.
Consider the impact of successful individuals on your business. Think about the countless problems that have been solved over the last 3 years, thanks to the contributions of staff, suppliers, contractors and customers. Each person played a part, no matter how big or small, in creating or supporting new and improved outcomes. This also happens in communities and this interconnectedness reminds me of how people of NZ came together during the Christchurch earthquakes, with individuals from different backgrounds and professions collaborating to support one another. Having come from Christchurch I was really impressed by the consequence of everyone doing everything they could to help each other and how that unified the whole region.
To truly enhance our sense of success, it is crucial to identify what we want to achieve and what matters to us personally. By setting clear goals and aligning them with our values, we can measure our progress and continuously strive for improvement. For me, this involves not only professional targets but also personal aspirations, like maintaining a healthy work-life balance, fostering meaningful relationships, and being there for my family and friends.
In this journey, it is essential to remember that every success story begins with someone taking action. It could be as simple as checking in on the wellbeing of your staff or as significant as starting a new business. Each step forward counts, no matter how small it may seem. I often remind myself that progress is made through consistent effort and the willingness to step out of my comfort zone.
However, as we strive for success, we must also address the pervasive “Tall Poppy Syndrome.” This negative mindset, prevalent in our society, can sometimes overshadow and hinder the pursuit of success. It is the tendency to criticize or undermine others who have achieved notable success, often out of envy or insecurity. This can be self-destructive and undermine your desire for success as it cements the perception it might come at the cost of valued friendships and compromise existing self-image. When we replace this destructive behaviour by shifting our perspective and celebrating the success of others we increase the prospect of our own success. It is crucial to recognize that other peoples achievements do not diminish our own potential, but rather inspire us to believe in our own capability and efforts.
Destroying the “Tall Poppy Syndrome” starts with each one of us. By cultivating an environment of support, encouragement, and celebration, we create a space where everyone can be a success. Recognize that success is not a zero-sum game; it is a collective endeavour where one person’s achievements can uplift and inspire others.
In conclusion, success is a deeply personal and shared experience. It is not defined solely by society’s standards but by our own aspirations and the positive impact we create. Celebrate your victories, set meaningful goals, support others on their journeys, and avoid the destructive influence of the “Tall Poppy Syndrome.” Let your success become a beacon of inspiration and generosity, both for yourself and the world around you.
